How to Get Divorced UK - Step-by-Step Process Guide 2026

Ready to start divorce proceedings? Our step-by-step guide walks you through the entire UK divorce process, from application to decree absolute, including costs and timelines.

Starting divorce proceedings can feel overwhelming, but understanding the process makes it much more manageable. This step-by-step guide walks you through everything you need to know about getting divorced in the UK in 2026.

At MCR Solicitors, we've guided thousands of clients through divorce. This guide reflects the current 'no-fault' divorce system and will help you understand what to expect at each stage.

Before You Start: Key Requirements

Before you can apply for divorce in England and Wales, you must:

  • Have been married for at least one year
  • Have a marriage recognised as valid in the UK
  • Have a permanent home in England or Wales (or one of you must)

Step 1: Decide on Sole or Joint Application

You can apply for divorce in two ways:

Sole Application

  • One spouse applies alone
  • The other spouse is notified and served with papers
  • Useful when you can't agree or communicate

Joint Application

  • Both spouses apply together
  • Shows you're both ready for divorce
  • Can share the court fee
  • Requires cooperation

Step 2: Complete the Divorce Application

You'll need to provide:

  • Your marriage certificate (original or certified copy)
  • Both parties' names and addresses
  • Details of any court cases involving your marriage
  • Statement that the marriage has broken down irretrievably

Applying Online

Most applications are now made online through the government portal. You'll need:

  • An email address
  • A way to pay the £593 court fee
  • To upload your marriage certificate

Applying by Post

Paper applications are still available if you can't apply online. Download Form D8 and send it to your regional divorce centre.

Step 3: Pay the Court Fee

The court fee is £593. This can be paid:

  • Online by card when you apply
  • By cheque if applying by post

Fee remission: If you're on a low income or receiving certain benefits, you can apply for help with fees (Form EX160).

Step 4: Court Issues Your Application

Once the court receives your application and payment, they will:

  • Check everything is in order
  • Issue the application (give it a case number)
  • Send copies to both parties

This usually takes 1-2 weeks.

Step 5: The 20-Week Reflection Period

After the application is issued, there's a mandatory 20-week waiting period.

This time is designed for you to:

  • Reflect on whether you want to proceed
  • Make practical arrangements
  • Negotiate financial settlement
  • Agree child arrangements

Important: You cannot shorten this period, even if you both want a quick divorce.

Step 6: Apply for Conditional Order

After 20 weeks, you can apply for a Conditional Order (previously called Decree Nisi).

For a sole application:

  • The applicant applies
  • Confirms they want to proceed
  • The court checks everything is in order

For a joint application:

  • Both parties must confirm they want to proceed
  • If one doesn't respond, the other can continue alone

The court usually processes Conditional Orders within 2-4 weeks.

Step 7: Wait 6 Weeks

After the Conditional Order, there's a further 6-week waiting period before you can apply for the Final Order.

Step 8: Apply for Final Order

The Final Order (previously Decree Absolute) legally ends your marriage.

Once you have it:

  • You are officially divorced
  • You can remarry
  • Your legal status changes

Don't delay too long: If you don't apply within 12 months of the Conditional Order, you'll need to explain the delay to the court.

Total Timeline Summary

StageTime
Application to issue1-2 weeks
Reflection period20 weeks
Conditional Order processing2-4 weeks
Wait before Final Order6 weeks
Total minimum~29 weeks (7 months)

What About Finances and Children?

The divorce process only ends your marriage. You'll need to deal with:

Financial Settlement

Agree how to divide assets (property, pensions, savings) and whether anyone pays maintenance. Get a consent order to make it legally binding.

Child Arrangements

Agree where children will live and when they'll see each parent. Try to agree between yourselves or through mediation before involving the court.

These can be done alongside the divorce or afterwards, but it's better to resolve everything together.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does divorce take in the UK?

The minimum is approximately 26-29 weeks (6-7 months). In practice, most divorces take 6-9 months from application to Final Order.

Can I get divorced online?

Yes - you can apply for divorce online through the government portal. This is now the standard method. You'll need to create an account, complete the application, upload your marriage certificate, and pay the fee online.

What documents do I need for divorce?

You'll need: your original marriage certificate (or certified copy), your spouse's name and address, and details of any previous court cases about your marriage. For financial settlement, you'll also need financial documents.

Can my spouse refuse to divorce me?

No - under the no-fault system, your spouse cannot contest the divorce itself. They can only dispute jurisdiction or the validity of the marriage. If you apply, the divorce will proceed.

Do I need to go to court?

Usually no. Most divorces are processed on paper without any court attendance. You'd only need to attend if there's a dispute about finances or children that can't be resolved.

What's the difference between Conditional Order and Final Order?

The Conditional Order confirms you're entitled to divorce. The Final Order actually ends your marriage. There's a mandatory 6-week gap between them.

Should I sort out finances before applying for divorce?

You can do either. Many people prefer to resolve finances as part of the divorce process. Getting a financial order before or at the same time as your Final Order is advisable.

Can I change my name after divorce?

Yes - your Final Order serves as proof of divorce and allows you to change your name. You don't need a deed poll if reverting to your maiden name.

How MCR Solicitors Can Help

We offer different levels of support depending on your needs:

  • Full-service divorce - We handle everything
  • Assisted divorce - We guide you through the process
  • Document drafting - We prepare your financial consent order
  • Advice-only - We advise, you handle the paperwork

All services begin with a free initial consultation.

Get Started Today

Ready to take the first step? Contact MCR Solicitors for a free, confidential consultation.

Phone: 0161 466 1280

Address: First Floor, 1024 Stockport Road, Manchester M19 3WX

We're here to make this process as smooth as possible.

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